A lot of people get trapped in affairs. They know they are doing wrong; they want to get out, but just can't get out of it and they feel trapped. Is that you?
There are reasons you got trapped, but more importantly there are reasons you stay stuck. Here are some of them:
1. I can't help myself.
2. I love him.
3. She needs me.
4. I am lonely if I am on my own.
And of course there is the big "I have no idea why I am stuck in this relationship."
In all of these, you will have to fight your own feelings and desires. You will have to let go of the need to make the other partner happy or support them in some way. In other words, walk out of the affair and don't let the questions, the logic, the emotions, the feelings, and anything else that turns you back make you second guess. Build a wall between you and all those feelings that draw you back to that person. You must grow a cold heart to anything that will draw you back. Be cold-hearted. Be hardened. Be fixed on walking away from the relationship entirely. The Bible talks metaphorically about cutting off an arm to save the soul; you must sever your relationship even if it means that the other person suffers, cries, pouts, begs, or threatens suicide.
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